We're going to Ft. Worth. Ten of our middle-school and high school students will be leaving for Ft. Worth this Monday, June 8th. There are a total of 8 boys, 2 girls, 2 male sponsors (Ron and myself) and 2 of our best female volunteer sponsors (Jenny and Mary).
While in Ft. Worth we will be combining our efforts with other youth ministries from the Metroplex in housing projects. We will be scrapping old paint, applying new paint and doing everything else in between. We are to meet early each morning with the other groups for breakfast and assignments and will work into the early evening each day. From there Ron and I envision campfire Bible studies and the singing of Kum Ba Ya... or something like that. Actually, we will have lots of swimming, PLENTY of showering, probably our fair share of farting (at least in the boys rooms) and time in each of the rooms for the studying of the Word.
Following the completion of our work on Thursday afternoon we will head back to the hotel to clean up and then we're off to a Rangers baseball game.
Wish us luck and please pray for our safety.
Monday, June 1, 2009
Thursday, April 30, 2009
Summer on the horizon
It's hard to believe that school is coming to an end and summer is quickly approaching. Summer means new schedule and if this summer is anything like past summers, new faces at Rock Island. Ron and I recently completed the Rock Island daily schedule but still have a few holes to fill. Here's what it looks like so far...
Monday
1:30 High School Lunch
2:00 High School Movie Day
4:00 High School Workout
Tuesday
11:30-12:30 Elementary Craft Time
1:30 High School Lunch And Hangout
4:00 High School Workout
Wednesday
1:30 High School Lunch
3:00 High School Bible Study
4:00 High School Workout
Thursday
10:00 Elementary Hang Out
12:00 Lunch
1:30 High School Projects
We still are in the works of a possible athletic team, possibly basketball or soccer, and will also have the spontaneous weekend events that we will do our best to keep you updated about.
As far as camps go, we have opted out of the more traditional Oklahoma City camp appearance for our middle school and high school youth and have decided to take our efforts to another city, Dallas (Cleburne actually). The specifics are still being hammered out but it will have more of a work-project/fun trip look rather than a sleepless week, camp feel. Also, our elementary young'ins will continue their summer camp experience at camp Shiloh, located right here in Okc. We have signed up many of our kids already and have decided upon the camp dates of July 6th-10th. It is a day camp, 9-5:30, and offers the kids lots of outdoor games, crafts, animal experiences and....ok, just check out the link it does a better job of describing the camp ( http://www.shilohcamp.org/index2.htm ).
Along with summer comes more time with kids, along with more time with kids comes more activities, functions, organized and structured outings to keep them connected, involved and plugged in. Due to the increase in activity we also see an increase in the amount of funds we must have in order to keep up with all the summer's happenings. Our two biggest fund-eaters this summer will most definitely be sending the elementary kids to camp ($20 per camper X 15 campers = $300 ) and our jr. high/high school Texas trip (amount yet to be determined).
If you are interested in helping send even one student to camp this summer or are interested in helping fund the jr. high/school road trip, please email me and/or Ron or leave your contact info on my blog. Also, with all the extra activity going on we are always in need and desire volunteers to come check things out and get involved. If you have a special interest in anything in particular on the schedule feel free to contact one of us about that too.
lwhitmire@hotmail.com - Luke
ronwylercrawford@gmail.com - Ron
Monday
1:30 High School Lunch
2:00 High School Movie Day
4:00 High School Workout
Tuesday
11:30-12:30 Elementary Craft Time
1:30 High School Lunch And Hangout
4:00 High School Workout
Wednesday
1:30 High School Lunch
3:00 High School Bible Study
4:00 High School Workout
Thursday
10:00 Elementary Hang Out
12:00 Lunch
1:30 High School Projects
We still are in the works of a possible athletic team, possibly basketball or soccer, and will also have the spontaneous weekend events that we will do our best to keep you updated about.
As far as camps go, we have opted out of the more traditional Oklahoma City camp appearance for our middle school and high school youth and have decided to take our efforts to another city, Dallas (Cleburne actually). The specifics are still being hammered out but it will have more of a work-project/fun trip look rather than a sleepless week, camp feel. Also, our elementary young'ins will continue their summer camp experience at camp Shiloh, located right here in Okc. We have signed up many of our kids already and have decided upon the camp dates of July 6th-10th. It is a day camp, 9-5:30, and offers the kids lots of outdoor games, crafts, animal experiences and....ok, just check out the link it does a better job of describing the camp ( http://www.shilohcamp.org/index2.htm ).
Along with summer comes more time with kids, along with more time with kids comes more activities, functions, organized and structured outings to keep them connected, involved and plugged in. Due to the increase in activity we also see an increase in the amount of funds we must have in order to keep up with all the summer's happenings. Our two biggest fund-eaters this summer will most definitely be sending the elementary kids to camp ($20 per camper X 15 campers = $300 ) and our jr. high/high school Texas trip (amount yet to be determined).
If you are interested in helping send even one student to camp this summer or are interested in helping fund the jr. high/school road trip, please email me and/or Ron or leave your contact info on my blog. Also, with all the extra activity going on we are always in need and desire volunteers to come check things out and get involved. If you have a special interest in anything in particular on the schedule feel free to contact one of us about that too.
lwhitmire@hotmail.com - Luke
ronwylercrawford@gmail.com - Ron
Thursday, April 2, 2009
Wednesday Bible Study
Wednesday Bible studies are still going strong. This past Wednesday we finished reading Luke 8. We reviewed each of the small stories as we read and let the youth determine which stories we would spend the most time discussing. The majority of our time was spent talking about the healing of the demon possessed man, Legion, and the sick women who had been bleeding for years.
Some of the questions we discussed were questions such as: Did the demons know Jesus? What happened to the demons when they fell of the cliff with the pigs? Do demons die? Where did demons come from? We also discussed what kind of lifestyle Legion might live. Where he lived. Who, if anyone, associated with him.
The bulk of our discussion was based around the women who had been bleeding for years and only desired to touch Jesus. Jesus told the women, "Daughter, your faith has healed you. God in peace." We asked the kids how they felt about this and why Jesus would allow this women to be instantly healed and at the same time was having a small girl wait to be healed until he could be present at her house. We discussed how Jesus, like in the stories, decided to instantaneously heal one person and decided to heal another person only after a short wait. Each person came to Jesus with a need and He answered/fulfilled their needs.
As we wrapped up our study and prepared to pray we challenged the kids to ask God for something they couldn't do on their own, something they needed Him to do, that only He could do. We stressed to the kids how the people in the story had REAL needs, not just wants, and how Jesus was true to answer their needs when He deemed necessary.
As we prayed some kids said a word, some kids said a phrase in order to tell God their need. We challenged the kids to keep lifting up the same need in prayer until God showed his power, whether a day, a week, a year or longer.
"God, who has called you into fellowship with His Son Jesus Christ our Lord, is faithful"
Some of the questions we discussed were questions such as: Did the demons know Jesus? What happened to the demons when they fell of the cliff with the pigs? Do demons die? Where did demons come from? We also discussed what kind of lifestyle Legion might live. Where he lived. Who, if anyone, associated with him.
The bulk of our discussion was based around the women who had been bleeding for years and only desired to touch Jesus. Jesus told the women, "Daughter, your faith has healed you. God in peace." We asked the kids how they felt about this and why Jesus would allow this women to be instantly healed and at the same time was having a small girl wait to be healed until he could be present at her house. We discussed how Jesus, like in the stories, decided to instantaneously heal one person and decided to heal another person only after a short wait. Each person came to Jesus with a need and He answered/fulfilled their needs.
As we wrapped up our study and prepared to pray we challenged the kids to ask God for something they couldn't do on their own, something they needed Him to do, that only He could do. We stressed to the kids how the people in the story had REAL needs, not just wants, and how Jesus was true to answer their needs when He deemed necessary.
As we prayed some kids said a word, some kids said a phrase in order to tell God their need. We challenged the kids to keep lifting up the same need in prayer until God showed his power, whether a day, a week, a year or longer.
"God, who has called you into fellowship with His Son Jesus Christ our Lord, is faithful"
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Bad call by me
Turns out this was a bad idea by me. Shortly after posting my first blog about Oakland I continued to search for who might be my next "blog post". Not what I initially intended. So, rather then seek out relationships with people to blog about them I think it would be best to discontinue this theme. Plus, if someone is genuinely interested in the details about someone they'll come find out first hand.
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Oakland
My first "lifestory" that I am going to blog about is about a man I will refer to as, "Oakland". As you will discover, the name I give him has a little bit to do with his story.
Oakland is a black man in his early fifties. He's rough. He's honest. He's funny. He's intimidating. He's an alcoholic. He played college football at Langston. He was drafted by the Los Angeles/Oakland Raiders. Upon being drafted he was visited by Fred Biletnikoff, a former Raiders player, and given a large sum of money (Oakland claims it was $25,000). Once he flew out to California he partied, drank and wasted his money away. He never reported to training camp. Oakland is homeless and he's always late to sign in at Cross and Crown for food.
A couple of years ago I got into it with Oakland at the front door when I told him he was too late to get food for the day. I repetitively attempted to explain to him how it would be unfair for me to allow him to get food at 1:00 in the afternoon when 50 other people had been waiting in line at 9:00 in the morning to sign up for food and another 3-5 people arrived at 9:15 or so only to find out they were too late. So, how did he see it fit for him to get food and not all those other people that had been waiting several hours before him in the cold? It didn't matter. He was determined to get food that day (shoot, if i was in his position I probably wouldn't take no for an answer either). After several minutes of failing to get my point across Oakland and I came to an agreement and worked out a plan.
Ever since this instance Oakland and I have been on good terms. Nowadays any day Oakland comes we talk basketball. Oakland is a big Celtics fan (go figure, in all honesty though he was fan well before KG, Ray and Pierce). He is a Kobe hater, so I'm in good company. He always asks me about my basketball playing and how my games have been going. He tells me I look like Jeff Hornacek ( http://www.nba.com/media/history/jazz_hornacek_240.jpg) . I promise him I don't play like him. He calls everyone at the mission his kinfolk and says we're the only family he's got.
That's Oaklands' story.
Oakland is a black man in his early fifties. He's rough. He's honest. He's funny. He's intimidating. He's an alcoholic. He played college football at Langston. He was drafted by the Los Angeles/Oakland Raiders. Upon being drafted he was visited by Fred Biletnikoff, a former Raiders player, and given a large sum of money (Oakland claims it was $25,000). Once he flew out to California he partied, drank and wasted his money away. He never reported to training camp. Oakland is homeless and he's always late to sign in at Cross and Crown for food.
A couple of years ago I got into it with Oakland at the front door when I told him he was too late to get food for the day. I repetitively attempted to explain to him how it would be unfair for me to allow him to get food at 1:00 in the afternoon when 50 other people had been waiting in line at 9:00 in the morning to sign up for food and another 3-5 people arrived at 9:15 or so only to find out they were too late. So, how did he see it fit for him to get food and not all those other people that had been waiting several hours before him in the cold? It didn't matter. He was determined to get food that day (shoot, if i was in his position I probably wouldn't take no for an answer either). After several minutes of failing to get my point across Oakland and I came to an agreement and worked out a plan.
Ever since this instance Oakland and I have been on good terms. Nowadays any day Oakland comes we talk basketball. Oakland is a big Celtics fan (go figure, in all honesty though he was fan well before KG, Ray and Pierce). He is a Kobe hater, so I'm in good company. He always asks me about my basketball playing and how my games have been going. He tells me I look like Jeff Hornacek ( http://www.nba.com/media/history/jazz_hornacek_240.jpg) . I promise him I don't play like him. He calls everyone at the mission his kinfolk and says we're the only family he's got.
That's Oaklands' story.
Friday, February 6, 2009
same kind of difference as who?...you
I just recently finished the book, "Same Kind of Difference as Me". If you haven't read the book, you should. If you have read the book then you know that it is a story about two very different men who cross paths and form a very unlikely friendship. One man, white, comes from a rich heritage and had never experienced need, whereas the other man, black, comes from a poverty stricken past and has never gone a day without lacking. After having met at a nearby mission the two begin their journey. Through the course of time they discover a common ground, Christ, and the rest is history.
One of the most memorable, if not the most memorable, aspects of this true story that struck me was the fact that Denver, the black man, who lived on the streets and ate at the mission had so much to offer, so much untapped potential that was just bottled up and waiting for someone to ignite within him. Luckily, with the encouragement of his wife, Ron, the white man, decides to pursue Denver and befriend him, promising not to "catch-and-release" him.
As you continue to read, Denver and Ron become closer and closer and slowly but surely Ron's wife's prophetic words come true as Denver realizes his inner desire to know Christ and to follow Christ's call in his life. Don't get me wrong, this isn't the "rich, white guy with the easy life goes and saves the poor, confused black man". Towards the beginning of the book as Ron tries to shed some of his "knowledge" and do his "Christian thing" at the mission by feeding meals and basically "punching his good Samaritan card" we quickly discover Ron is in for some life-altering discoveries, as well.
This is the hope and desire that I, along with others, have at Cross and Crown and Rock Island. I can't imagine what it would be like if individuals, such as Ron, would intentionally (whether it was their idea initially or not) pour into and befriend, actually become friends with, specific individuals or youth that visit Cross and Crown and Rock Island. Just like Denver, there are so many "untapped" individuals that live on the streets and live a lonely, unengaged lifestyle that starves for friendship, family and relationship. As I am writing this I can think of 5 men, by name, that fit this exact description. I can only begin to imagine how different their lives would be if someone was willing to step in and give them the encouragement and friendship they desire and need.
I know. I know that for every Denver there are 100 others that don't work out or don't develop into the incredible story we envisioned. People disappoint. God doesn't. You just have to decide if that 1 out of 100 success ratio is worth the risk, worth your time, worth your effort. Maybe it is, maybe it's not. Maybe you think they have had their chance. That's between you and God.
Over the next several blogs that I write I am going to do my best to highlight some individuals and their stories and/or backgrounds. Given my blogging history this could mean a couple weeks or a couple months. Maybe through some of these life stories and real facts about real people your heart or interest might be sparked and lead to come down and see if you can't meet and befriend your "Denver".
One of the most memorable, if not the most memorable, aspects of this true story that struck me was the fact that Denver, the black man, who lived on the streets and ate at the mission had so much to offer, so much untapped potential that was just bottled up and waiting for someone to ignite within him. Luckily, with the encouragement of his wife, Ron, the white man, decides to pursue Denver and befriend him, promising not to "catch-and-release" him.
As you continue to read, Denver and Ron become closer and closer and slowly but surely Ron's wife's prophetic words come true as Denver realizes his inner desire to know Christ and to follow Christ's call in his life. Don't get me wrong, this isn't the "rich, white guy with the easy life goes and saves the poor, confused black man". Towards the beginning of the book as Ron tries to shed some of his "knowledge" and do his "Christian thing" at the mission by feeding meals and basically "punching his good Samaritan card" we quickly discover Ron is in for some life-altering discoveries, as well.
This is the hope and desire that I, along with others, have at Cross and Crown and Rock Island. I can't imagine what it would be like if individuals, such as Ron, would intentionally (whether it was their idea initially or not) pour into and befriend, actually become friends with, specific individuals or youth that visit Cross and Crown and Rock Island. Just like Denver, there are so many "untapped" individuals that live on the streets and live a lonely, unengaged lifestyle that starves for friendship, family and relationship. As I am writing this I can think of 5 men, by name, that fit this exact description. I can only begin to imagine how different their lives would be if someone was willing to step in and give them the encouragement and friendship they desire and need.
I know. I know that for every Denver there are 100 others that don't work out or don't develop into the incredible story we envisioned. People disappoint. God doesn't. You just have to decide if that 1 out of 100 success ratio is worth the risk, worth your time, worth your effort. Maybe it is, maybe it's not. Maybe you think they have had their chance. That's between you and God.
Over the next several blogs that I write I am going to do my best to highlight some individuals and their stories and/or backgrounds. Given my blogging history this could mean a couple weeks or a couple months. Maybe through some of these life stories and real facts about real people your heart or interest might be sparked and lead to come down and see if you can't meet and befriend your "Denver".
Sunday, January 25, 2009
Bible Study update
Every Bible Study at Rock Island is different. Like I wrote in a previous blog, the studies each seem to have a life of their own. Sometimes slow developing, often off course, but always successful. The only sure thing each Bible Study is that we will end in prayer. A few weeks ago Ron recorded the special on the news called, "Crystal Darkness". We watched it the following day at Bible Study and let the video determine the topic of conversation.
This particular study was smaller than usual. Generally there are 4-7 high schoolers there, this study had 3. Following the 30-35 minute video we opened it up for any general comments, questions or thoughts......nothing. No big surprise there, that's normal (especially with 3 kids). After a few seconds of no comments, questions or thoughts Ron, being the good man he is, took some initiative and talked about the realness of drugs, not just this drug, but of all drugs and the effects they have on both users and their families, friends and their sphere of influence. The kids were attentive, mostly nodding their heads in agreement, and one of them mentioned a life experience where they had a family member who used a certain drug and told how it made him feel, not too much talking, but some insight.
After this young man had shared a girl, the only in attendance that day, began to share about personal experience with drugs. She shared about her experimentation with all sorts of drugs and some of the effects it had both on her and her family. After a few minutes of sharing she began to cry when she had somewhat of a self-realization that she is still unsure of why she ever stopped using. She explained how she used mainly because her friends at the time were using, not knowing full well why she was and not having any real desire to use. As she continued to unfold her story and talk out loud her past actions, which seemed like the first time, she started to lose control. I believe that she was begining to question why she ever stopped. She considered herself lucky and explained how bad it made her feel, both then and now, in retrospect.
After a few more comments here and there by Ron and I we tried our best to wrap up the the discussion and ended it with a prayer.
During our most recent Bible Study, this past week, Ron and I decided that it was time to plug in to a specific book of the Bible. We choose Luke because, we agree, he does a good job with details and gives some stories about Jesus and his life that we think the youth would find interesting, which may then lead to questions.
So, we did just that. We began reading Luke and made it through chapter 2, I believe. We made it far enough to get to questions such as the following:
Why is so Jesus so important and why not Mary?
Why was Mary chosen to have Jesus and not Elizabeth?
Why was Jesus born of a virgin and it doesn't say whether John was or not?
Why are people singing? (good question)
Why are they circumcised?
as well as a few more.
One student volunteered to read and anytime one of the others had a question, wasn't sure about something we had read, or just wanted to make a general comment they would interrupt. Also, there were a few times that we would read over something and stop if no one had a question just to, more or less, recap. So, after we had finished reading and Ron and I did our best to address the questions and tried to get their input on their own questions, we decided to wrap things up with...you guessed it, a prayer. Regardless of what shape or form our Bible Study takes the young'ins know we will always pray.
This Wednesday we will tackle the next couple of chapters, 2-4, and see what happens.
This particular study was smaller than usual. Generally there are 4-7 high schoolers there, this study had 3. Following the 30-35 minute video we opened it up for any general comments, questions or thoughts......nothing. No big surprise there, that's normal (especially with 3 kids). After a few seconds of no comments, questions or thoughts Ron, being the good man he is, took some initiative and talked about the realness of drugs, not just this drug, but of all drugs and the effects they have on both users and their families, friends and their sphere of influence. The kids were attentive, mostly nodding their heads in agreement, and one of them mentioned a life experience where they had a family member who used a certain drug and told how it made him feel, not too much talking, but some insight.
After this young man had shared a girl, the only in attendance that day, began to share about personal experience with drugs. She shared about her experimentation with all sorts of drugs and some of the effects it had both on her and her family. After a few minutes of sharing she began to cry when she had somewhat of a self-realization that she is still unsure of why she ever stopped using. She explained how she used mainly because her friends at the time were using, not knowing full well why she was and not having any real desire to use. As she continued to unfold her story and talk out loud her past actions, which seemed like the first time, she started to lose control. I believe that she was begining to question why she ever stopped. She considered herself lucky and explained how bad it made her feel, both then and now, in retrospect.
After a few more comments here and there by Ron and I we tried our best to wrap up the the discussion and ended it with a prayer.
During our most recent Bible Study, this past week, Ron and I decided that it was time to plug in to a specific book of the Bible. We choose Luke because, we agree, he does a good job with details and gives some stories about Jesus and his life that we think the youth would find interesting, which may then lead to questions.
So, we did just that. We began reading Luke and made it through chapter 2, I believe. We made it far enough to get to questions such as the following:
Why is so Jesus so important and why not Mary?
Why was Mary chosen to have Jesus and not Elizabeth?
Why was Jesus born of a virgin and it doesn't say whether John was or not?
Why are people singing? (good question)
Why are they circumcised?
as well as a few more.
One student volunteered to read and anytime one of the others had a question, wasn't sure about something we had read, or just wanted to make a general comment they would interrupt. Also, there were a few times that we would read over something and stop if no one had a question just to, more or less, recap. So, after we had finished reading and Ron and I did our best to address the questions and tried to get their input on their own questions, we decided to wrap things up with...you guessed it, a prayer. Regardless of what shape or form our Bible Study takes the young'ins know we will always pray.
This Wednesday we will tackle the next couple of chapters, 2-4, and see what happens.
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